How to avoid your own Frosty the Snowman-sized meltdown

Surviving Holiday Travel


Brrr it's cold here.  We have had a ridiculous amount of snow and an equally ridiculous amount of days off from school.  I have been busy booking some tropical vacations and I so want to go now that the snow fun has worn off.   Before the 14 inches of snow, the kids joined Kyle and I on our annual Tacky Light run, seriously a 6k through a neighborhood with incredibly tacky Christmas lights.  We had a great time and even met up with some of my favorite clients! We overindulged at a tacky sweater brunch party and jingled our way through our church party.  We have one more week of school which means holiday travel is approaching, eek!

        
When our children were born, we made the conscious decision that Santa was always going to come down OUR chimney...anyone is welcome at our place but no traveling over Christmas to visit family and friends. And we have really stuck to the rule, issuing an open invitation to all the grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins to come and spend the holidays with us. It has always struck me as "crazy" when I see the insane TSA security lines and hear stories about the airport traffic and lack of parking around the busiest flying time of the year, but I also realize that some people have no choice but to brave the elements to make it home for the Holidays. If you do have to travel during the "season of crazies", here are some tips to help you maintain a little bit of your sanity.

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Travel Tips

  • Plan Ahead and Do Your Research// Make your reservations well in advance and pick your flights carefully...if you have to connect, try to pick a connecting airport where the weather might cooperate a little better...in December, ALWAYS choose a connection in Dallas or Atlanta over Chicago or Minneapolis! It's just smart! Be sure to make your seat assignments at the same time you buy your ticket if the airline's policy allows. And, this is a time when spending a little bit extra to have pre-assigned seating is worth the investment                

  • Pack Light, Pack Light, Pack Light// You guys already know how I feel about packing light, but over the holidays it becomes even more important. The less you have to worry about schlepping through the crowded airports, the better. Plus, you can save huge amounts of time, money and stress by fitting your things into an easy-to-maneuver carry- on bag. If you do check luggage, be sure to keep the essentials like medications and important documents with you - just in case!

  • Don't get"Hangry"// When your tummy is growling, your mind can't think straight, and you could unknowingly get in the wrong line, take a wrong turn, or annoy an innocent flight attendant! Pack some healthy snacks so you and your family will not have to rely on the kindness of strangers if you end up sitting on the tarmac for hours. You will thank me later!

  • Ship gifts ahead or give gift cards this year// TSA suggests to always ship wrapped gifts to your destination, or wait until you reach your destination to wrap them. They will have to unwrap and inspect any gift that they can't identify in your carry-on luggage. Plus, you don't want to struggle with a heavy suitcase full of gifts through the airport if you are forced to run to make a tight connection

  • Plan ahead and leave plenty of extra time// Leave home for the airport at least an extra hour ahead of time to allow for traffic, parking, check-in and security delays. And, when booking your flights, try to avoid any super tight connections. If you only have 45 minutes between flights in the Atlanta airport, you could be in big trouble if your first flight is delayed a little. It's much less stressful to find a nice bar or coffee shop in the airport to kill some extra time.    

  • Inhale and Exhale// The chatty neighbor on the airplane who takes up your armrest, the cancelled and delayed flights and the luggage that disappeared between airports will all make for great stories over dinner when you finally make it to your destination and are surrounded by your loved ones. Just breathe, keep your sense of humor and try to let the frustration go....

Holiday travel is just as much of a tradition to many as pumpkin pie, ugly Christmas sweaters and re-gifting...so use these tips to avoid your own Frosty the Snowman- sized meltdown! Deep breaths and Happy Holidays to everyone!